As parents, one of the most important skills we can teach our teens is how to accumulate positive experiences. Life’s challenges, especially during adolescence, can feel overwhelming, and for teens dealing with depression or difficult emotions, it can seem like the negative always outweighs the positive. That’s where the concept of "Accumulating Positives" comes in—a skill that can help them build up the emotional reserves needed to weather life's storms.

As a parent of a teenager, you’ve probably seen your child struggle with intense emotions that lead to behaviors they might later regret. Whether it's withdrawing when they're sad or avoiding responsibilities when they're anxious, these behaviors are often driven by natural emotional urges. But what if there was a way to help them reroute their brain and choose healthier, more effective responses? This is where the concept of opposite action comes into play.

As parents, we all experience moments where our emotions seem to outweigh the situation at hand. You might have found yourself in a scenario where your teenager doesn’t respond to you as they’re walking up the stairs. Perhaps you’ve asked a question, and instead of getting a reply, you’re met with silence. The frustration builds, and before you know it, you’re in a rage.

Wise Mind is the balanced, centered state where logic and emotion intersect. It’s that inner knowing we tap into when we’re making decisions that align with our true selves—decisions that honor both our rational thoughts and our emotional experiences. For teenagers, who are often swayed by intense emotions or rigid logic, cultivating Wise Mind can be particularly valuable.

Describing emotions can be tricky, especially when we struggle to pinpoint exactly how we feel or how to express those feelings in words. This challenge is even more pronounced for teens, who are navigating a whirlwind of changes. At Creative Healing, we help teens make sense of their emotions by guiding them to recognize and understand their emotional patterns.