Parenting

Helping Your Teen Practice Radical Acceptance

Helping Your Teen Practice Radical Acceptance

As a parent, you’ve probably heard your teen say things like, “This isn’t fair!” or “Why does this always happen to me?” Moments of frustration and resistance are part of life, but when teens focus too much on what they can’t change, it can lead to more pain and hopelessness. That’s where Radical Acceptance comes in—a powerful DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) skill that teaches teens to stop fighting reality and focus on what they can control.

Helping Your Teen Cope With Difficult Emotions Using ACCEPTS

Helping Your Teen Cope With Difficult Emotions Using ACCEPTS

Life as a teenager can be overwhelming. Between academic stress, friendships, and figuring out their identity, teens often experience intense emotions that feel like too much to handle. This is where ACCEPTS comes in—a DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) skill designed to help manage those emotions by focusing on distraction and self-soothing strategies.

Why Building Your Own Distress Tolerance is Key to Supporting Your Teen

Why Building Your Own Distress Tolerance is Key to Supporting Your Teen

As a parent, when your teen has a history of self-harm or suicidal ideation, it’s natural to feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells. Every decision—leaving them home alone, setting boundaries, or addressing difficult behaviors—can feel like a potential trigger, and that fear can be all-consuming. But here’s the truth: navigating these challenges isn’t just about what your teen does. It’s about how you respond.

Rethinking How Teens Cope: A Parent’s Guide to Supporting Mental Health

Rethinking How Teens Cope: A Parent’s Guide to Supporting Mental Health

When teens are encouraged to cope with mental health issues, they’re often bombarded with terms like “fight,” “push through,” and “overcome.” These words, while well-meaning, can create a sense that mental health challenges must be defeated, rather than understood. For parents of teenagers with mental health concerns, a different approach can be incredibly valuable—a way of embracing mental health as part of their teen’s experience rather than something to battle against.

Building Empathy and Understanding with Your Teen Using the THINK Skill

Building Empathy and Understanding with Your Teen Using the THINK Skill

When it comes to helping teens build healthy relationships, the THINK skill is one of the most powerful tools we can offer. This skill is all about perspective-taking—learning how to step outside of our own experience and try to see things from someone else’s point of view. Not only can this improve our teens' relationships, but it can also deepen their empathy, understanding, and overall emotional resilience.