Parenting Teens

Teen DBT Self-Soothe Skills: Tools for Managing Big Emotions

Teen DBT Self-Soothe Skills: Tools for Managing Big Emotions

When teens feel overwhelmed or distressed, it’s common for emotions to take over. This can lead to explosive outbursts, self-sabotaging behaviors, or anxiety spirals. But it doesn’t have to be this way. While teens may not control every challenging situation they face, they can learn how to control their responses through DBT self-soothe techniques.

Why Building Your Own Distress Tolerance is Key to Supporting Your Teen

Why Building Your Own Distress Tolerance is Key to Supporting Your Teen

As a parent, when your teen has a history of self-harm or suicidal ideation, it’s natural to feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells. Every decision—leaving them home alone, setting boundaries, or addressing difficult behaviors—can feel like a potential trigger, and that fear can be all-consuming. But here’s the truth: navigating these challenges isn’t just about what your teen does. It’s about how you respond.

Rethinking How Teens Cope: A Parent’s Guide to Supporting Mental Health

Rethinking How Teens Cope: A Parent’s Guide to Supporting Mental Health

When teens are encouraged to cope with mental health issues, they’re often bombarded with terms like “fight,” “push through,” and “overcome.” These words, while well-meaning, can create a sense that mental health challenges must be defeated, rather than understood. For parents of teenagers with mental health concerns, a different approach can be incredibly valuable—a way of embracing mental health as part of their teen’s experience rather than something to battle against.

Building Empathy and Understanding with Your Teen Using the THINK Skill

Building Empathy and Understanding with Your Teen Using the THINK Skill

When it comes to helping teens build healthy relationships, the THINK skill is one of the most powerful tools we can offer. This skill is all about perspective-taking—learning how to step outside of our own experience and try to see things from someone else’s point of view. Not only can this improve our teens' relationships, but it can also deepen their empathy, understanding, and overall emotional resilience.

Using DBT Skills to Nurture Authenticity and Respect in Relationships

Using DBT Skills to Nurture Authenticity and Respect in Relationships

In any relationship, balance is key. We want our teens to experience both the joy of connecting with others and the confidence of staying true to themselves. Relationships are a two-way street, and a healthy connection requires both giving and receiving in a way that feels good to everyone involved.