parenting teens

What Actually Keeps Teens Safer When Things Feel Scary

The holidays have ramped things up. As a DBT specialty center working with high-risk teens, we're getting more calls from panicked parents than any other time of year.

The combination of darkness, routine disruption, and family pressure creates a perfect storm for teens already struggling with emotional regulation. But here's what parents need to understand: crisis does not automatically mean hospitalization.

After 15 years of working with suicidal teens, I've learned that distress and danger are not the same thing. How we respond shapes what happens next—and there are specific skills that keep teens safer while helping them build a life worth living.

Surviving December: A Parent’s Guide to Supporting Teen Mental Health with DBT Skills During the Holidays

Surviving December: A Parent’s Guide to Supporting Teen Mental Health with DBT Skills During the Holidays

The holidays are supposed to be “the most wonderful time of the year”—but for many teens (and their parents), December brings more stress than joy. Learn why this month is uniquely challenging for emotionally sensitive teens, and discover practical, DBT-informed strategies—including Accumulating Positives, Coping Ahead, and PLEASE skills—to help your family find calm, connection, and hope.

Is Therapy Enough? When to Consider DBT vs. Partial Hospitalization for Your Teen

Is Therapy Enough? When to Consider DBT vs. Partial Hospitalization for Your Teen

If your teen is struggling with self-harm, intense emotions, or sudden changes in behavior, it’s natural to wonder if weekly therapy is enough—or if they need something more intensive, like a partial hospital program (PHP). Here’s what most parents haven’t been told: a comprehensive DBT program is often the level of care you’re looking for. Learn what makes DBT different, when PHP is necessary, and how to make the best decision for your family.

How to Stop Walking on Eggshells: A Parent’s Guide to Calmer Conversations with Your Teen

Are you constantly worried about saying the “wrong thing” to your emotionally sensitive teen? You’re not alone. Learn why walking on eggshells doesn’t help, and discover practical steps to create calmer, more connected conversations at home.

Emotional Myths Are Holding Your Teen Back. Here’s How to Help

Emotional Myths Are Holding Your Teen Back. Here’s How to Help

Has your teen ever said, “I shouldn’t feel this way,” or, “If I feel it, it’ll never stop”? These beliefs don’t just make emotions harder to handle. They leave teens stuck, ashamed, and disconnected.

Many teens grow up learning emotional rules that are based on fear, not facts. These emotional myths come from family patterns, school culture, or personal experiences. And while they might sound true, they’re often the reason teens struggle to manage their feelings.